For this blog post, I'd like to share a Peace Corp Volunteer profile I wrote up for the Southeast Regional Office recruitment. I put a lot of thought into it and think it sums up how I'm feeling right now.
1) What one particular experience/moment
highlights your Peace Corps service?
I also love to hear poignant tales about
volunteers’ where they have an epiphany, or when all their hard work pays off,
or a local does something exceptionally kind. I’ve experienced all these
things, but when I reflect on my 23 months, no one moment shines above the
others. I am very happy here, don’t get me wrong, but also don’t go into Peace
Corps expecting one breathtaking moment to sweep you off your feet.
2) How have your values shifted, if at all?
My
values are now a solid blend of American and Azerbaijani, modern and
traditional. I now have the mindset that family is one’s roots and the building
block of societies. I’ve focused my future plans around my family, rather than
spending too much time on friends or acquaintances. I’ve always had the conviction
that money isn’t important, but now I’ve lived a life with little money and
seen how much farther kindness, generosity, good manners, respect, reputation,
and relationships can take you. Americans tend to think that if they’re
throwing dollars around for a good or service, they can behave however they
want.
3) What have you accomplished for the people in
your country?
“Accomplished”
is a strong word. It implies tangible results and touching stories about people
whose lives have been changed by something I did. Accomplishing is something
Peace Corps hopes for us to do, but it is the most difficult thing to do in
your service. Without a counterpart (local who you work with) who is super
inspired and resolute, accomplishing anything takes immense personal strength
and effort. I’ve “accomplished” setting a good model as a young woman. I’ve
“accomplished” representing the USA
in a positive and humble way. I’ve “accomplished” giving people hope that there
is more to this world than they can see.
Also, I have written a grant for an English Resource Cabinet,
providing our school with laptops, books, and other materials for diversified
learning. InshAllah (God willing) children who are usually “swept under the
rug” academically, will have a chance to learn and thusly improve their quality
of life.
4) Have you made local friends? Share a
‘friendship’ moment.
I get a little teary already thinking about having to
leave my Azerbaijani friends. I have two friends in particular who I’m very
close to; we meet every week for conversation club and no topic is off limits. We
talk about news and politics, science and religion, dating, relationships, and
family. I’ve probably learned more from them than they from me. We walk around
town and get lunch at our favorite cafes or ice cream from a market, in a
country where most women are encouraged to stay in the home.
5) What local customs drive you crazy?
The “fact”
that every ache or illness is due to the person being, or having contact with
something, cold. “Oh, Kaylee, your throat is sore cause you drank that cold
water a few days ago; don’t sit near the fan, you’re going to get ill; you took
a bath with cool water? Are you crazy?!”
6) How does technology fit into your experience?
I imagine that Peace Corps service must be so psychologically taxing for those
without internet (or telephone) access. Not knowing how your loved ones are
doing, or what is going on with them; lack of enjoying your own culture’s
language and arts; plus simple boredom could have tolls on one’s mental health.
I imagine that relationships would fade without Skype or Facebook (although I
have learned that PC service shows you the friends you’ll keep forever).
Technology is especially important to me because my boyfriend, now actually my fiancée, and I have not only survived 2
years of internationally-distant communication, but have gained levels of
closeness and trust that perhaps would not have happened without my PC
experience.
7) Why
should more Americans apply for PC service?
It makes you a better-rounded
person. It gives you a set of eyes and a heart on the other side of the globe.
You break from the world of “America”
and lose the distortions you developed while growing up. Physically, it makes
you need less stuff and less luxury. It increases your patience and ability to
see the potential in people.
8) Describe your village site….in detail: what is
attractive / difficult about it?
My village actually is considered to be
attractive among Azerbaijanis and PCVs. It’s set alongside the foot of a
mountain in the Greater Caucasus range. There are former rivers with long
exposed beds through which a tenacious stream still manages to run despite many
years of poor resource management and major pollution. Trash is littered
everywhere along the stony streets and the acrid smell of more trash burning
rises in smoke behind tall stone and mud walls that surround every yard. Fruit
and nut trees grow everywhere, including blackberry brambles and hazelnut
groves. I’m often invited to tea if a family spots me walking past, but usually
I’m in a hurry to catch the bus or a taxi to town, just 15-20 minutes away.
9) How will you move your service forward upon
your return to the US?
Although I do not work with agriculture in Azerbaijan, I want to use the
interpersonal and community development skills I have strengthened here to
pursue a career in gardening. Keeping up with Peace Corps’s Third Main Goal, to
inform Americans about my host country, I’d love to do presentations in
classrooms or libraries or clubs, or whoever will have me, about Azerbaijan, the
gorgeous and fascinating country that no one knew existed.